Make a “pros” and “cons” list when making important decisions and give a score to each factor based upon level of importance. The “pros” are the positive results or reasons for making the decision in one direction. The “cons” are the negative or unfavorable results of making the decision in that same direction. If you have more than one direction for your decision-making, then you would be wise to make a “pros” and “cons” list for each possible direction your decision could take you in. Seeing your options in writing really does help clarify issues.
